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[SomeguyUK]

Yeah I agree. I mean, I’d love to try Ryano’s approach for a while as an experiment. But I think at this stage it might be a bit much for me personally.

I think for a guy who has a lot of hangups and faults beliefs about women, doing too much too soon can be damaging. If you’re someone who has a lot of shame about your sexuality and then you suddenly ‘expose’ it to a woman and get rejected, that could potentially be very traumatic psychologically.

Personally I have no problem getting sexual with girls, as I’ve talked about in other threads, but I feel like I need to prioritise getting over my fear of getting personal with girls, staying in conversation, and approaching in earshot of others.