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When you come back into her life, it should be fun. No deep conversations. No accusations. No baring of your innermost feelings. No demand for promises. You’re a new man. You’ve learned your lesson. Later, as you get closer and your aspirations for the future are more aligned, you’re allowed to open up more. Until then, she’s just another source of fun to you. Without you saying so, it should be obvious to her that there may be others. If she asks, you smile and refuse to talk about it. “We’re not there yet. This is a new start for us. Let’s just enjoy and see where it goes.” Reestablish attraction, then get closer, but not until then.