Reply To: street game
I don’t like openers in which a girl has to make an immediate judgement about me (and most of the guys I coach). When you ask whether she is waiting for her boyfriend, you are asking her to decide whether she wants to be perceived as unattached. All girls will eventually make decisions about us, but I want those decisions to be made about three minutes into the interaction, not before that. That’s roughly the point at which girls begin to understand with whom they are dealing. Before that, they have my looks, my body language, and my style. That’s not nothing, but it’s far short of the thermonuclear device that I plan to detonate in the combat zone if they give me three minutes or more.