Reply To: How to convert ping into buy in?

[The_Hurricane]

@ryano

If you don’t come across as a dog trying to get whatever bone they throw you, girls can and do initiate plenty. With very rare exceptions, they won’t approach you, but will they email you? Happens to me all the time. Even on the approach, they have other ways of giving you the runway to approach them. They pretend that they need you to take their picture with their friends. They ask you how to work a vending machine (one of my exs). It all depends on how you play it. If you give them certainty of your interest, no, they won’t initiate shit. If you’re legitimately on the fence about them and they dig you, will they make a move to get you off that fence? Absolutely.

–Lee