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Thanks for the practical guidelines man.

Although I have improved a lot, I am still dealing with some approach anxiety. I can approach now, but I often eject too quickly, and often don’t have the balls to get personal etc.

Would you recommend using the three guidelines you mentioned at this stage in my learning? I fee like I should just be trying to build up social comfort at this stage so I am comfortable talking to the girls, even if they aren’t very receptive.


Thanks for your viewpoint. You sound like you have a very Paul Janka-esque method of pickup, which is all well and good but I’m not sure it would work for me. Although I’m great with girls on dates, I’m still pretty timid when it comes to day approache, so I feel like I need to overcome that before I can run your type of game.