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I agree completely with EJ_ap. Disappear for a while. That would be best. Sounds like you’re already starting to take the right steps, but a month of total silence can work magic. When you get back in touch, don’t explain. Let her imagine the worst. Just tell her you needed some time to relax and have fun. All those discussions seemed pointless. If she asks you for details, tell her you don’t want to know about her private life and she shouldn’t ask about yours. Tell her that one way or the other, everything will work itself out. And keep posting.