Reply To: Mindset question

[SomeguyUK]

I was listening to Lee’s interview in the Six Steps audio files again, and he talks about making a list of attractive qualities that he wants in a woman. He said that helped him to become less outcome dependent, so maybe that’s worth a try too.

Ryano – I guess what I meant was how to build up that mental frame of ‘even though I am initiating the conversation because I find this girl attractive, she still needs to convince me she is worth spending time with’. As opposed to the frame of ‘this girl is pretty, I hope she likes me’. But I like what you’re saying – I am nowhere near the point of getting a number every day, but hopefully I’ll get there.