Stop by, pass by, tag along, whatever. That will make no difference. The important thing is that you give her a way out. Sounds like you did that with the other girl and she did exactly as I told you she would: she was busy so she offered you an alternative. At that point, you’d say “checking calendar for next week. will let you know soon.” After a few hours or maybe as much as a day, just tell her “next wednesday at 7, joe’s pub. the adventure begins.”
–Lee
