Reply To: Hot to approach with legitimate reasons?

[ryano]

How can you infer the content of a conversation just by the first sentence? I’ve had a situation that I asked a girl about the material of her jacket (boring right?) fast forward 3 hours and we’re having sex in my apt. Similarly a couple months back I asked two girls for a lighter (boring right?) and we had a threesome that same day.

I don’t think the opener matters really just as two people can start talking and get to know eachother. As mentioned, some openers are direct some are more indirect, it depends on my mood though. Sometimes I’m not in the mood to get into an “exciting” conversation off the bat with every person that’s around me. I just talk about what interests me in that moment, I don’t even think about what I say half the time, it’s just a throwaway comment to begin a conversation with someone.