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To be honest I think you’re on to a loser with this one dude. I’m no guru but I’ve been in this situation a lot of times and it rarely works out. I think Lee is right – just go silent.

I’m thinking maybe the crucial point was the ‘nice to meet you’ text. Maybe she wasn’t interested enough at that point, or she would have reciprocated. But to me the fact that she texted you the next day suggested she’s trying to keep you as an ‘option’ without committing to see you at this point. If she is at a festival and she is cute, it’s not unlikely she has met some other dude.

Do yourself a favour and get off Tinder. It’s too easy to just spend your time meeting mediocre chicks from there (that’s my experience anyway). Put the effort into your ‘real world’ game and meet some better ones.