Lifestyle. It’s been said that if you have an interesting enough life, that you almost don’t need any pickup skills. I don’t totally agree with that. If you are completely unable to take initiative, you’ll be debilitated in any environment. But in some ways it still holds true. You attract people into your life by

It’s that time of year. Office parties. Holiday parties. New Years. All kindsa parties. Parties can be one of the best places to meet people, particularly cute women. But for guys with anxiety, it’s not always the easiest thing in the world to go out and party. Here are some tips to make things better

When I first started learning how to talk to women I didn’t know, I lost touch with some of my female friends. I didn’t quite know how to include them in what I was learning. As I’ve gotten better at this stuff, I’ve begun to appreciate women on many different levels and have started to

This last weekend I was in San Francisco. A group of us went out at night. One of my friends brings his girlfriend. And the girlfriend has a friend along. We’re all hanging out drinking, having fun, talking to people out at bars. Eventually I make my way over to her. I sit down next

One of the things I’ve been thinking about lately is how little I enjoy bars and clubs for meeting women. I see that as a challenge, so part of me wants to take it on. And it’s a great place to practice approaching LOTS of women in a very concentrated place where everything’s dark, everyone’s