This post is from my good friend Cory Skyy. Steve is different than most guys out there. Steve and I are at a small dance club. Several cute girls are dancing up against him, just having a good time. I’m not surprised. We’ve been dancing for a while. I need some fresh air so I

I quit going to the gym. Why? Is it because I’m lazy? Nope. I’m driven as hell. Is it because I don’t want to get huge and muscular? Nope. I’d love to have a killer physique. It’s for one reason: Time. Every morning, I get up and I workout for about 20 minutes before breakfast.

“Smile!” Eric Weber admonished to the audience on the tape. It was the late 90’s. I was driving along the New Jersey Turnpike in my Plymouth Reliant listening to dating guru Eric Weber’s popular tape How to Talk to Girls. “When you don’t smile,” said Eric Weber, “women will think, ‘What can I do to

She nuzzles my chest as she lies in my arms. “Alright, I’m kicking your ass out,” I say to her with a smile. I give her a smack on the ass. “I gotta do some work.” “Look at you, all motivated,” she says, sitting up in bed. It’s Sunday morning. We woke twice in the

I’ve just finished a coaching session. As I step onto the subway platform, I pull out my book to read while I wait for the train. A very cute blonde girl with plaid pants and a low-cut blouse slowly walks by as if she’s heading nowhere in particular. So without hesitation, I tap her on

In our attempt to minimize emotional pain and discomfort, often times we as men are too ready to abandon an interaction with a woman. We do this assuming that she’s not interested because she hasn’t taken initiative or opened up yet. But I see it over and over again in coaching sessions: a guy will

One of the most important changes in becoming confident with women is spending less time “in your head” and more time being social. When you’re “in your head,” you’re not in the moment. You’re thinking too much about what could happen or what already has happened. Or you’re too self-conscious, focusing too much on how

I remember it like it was yesterday. It was a warm Friday evening, November 2005. I was sitting in a subway car on my way to get coaching to learn how to meet women. It was something I had never done before. I noticed my reflection in the window. I was wearing a new black

This post is from Robbie Kramer of Inner Confidence. One of my clients recently said to me, “I feel like you’ve given me permission to speak my mind.” He went on to talk about how he had always felt disrespected and belittled by his older brother but now he has the courage to stand up