I don’t have sex very much. That’s the honest truth. As a guy who teaches men how to meet women, it may not be what you expect to hear from me. Or what you want to hear. You might think that as a certification of my skill with women, I’d be posting about all my

“Your eyes are bigger than your stomach,” my mother would say to me as a child when I asked for a double serving of macaroni and cheese. “You’ll never be able to finish that.” She knew me better than I knew myself. I loved macaroni and cheese so I always asked for more but then

Some girl on Reddit posted this profile of a guy from OKCupid. Listened to 14 years worth of complaints about bad boyfriends, your bad day and everything else that’s wrong with you. Have helped hundreds, possibly thousands of people just by listening and trying to cheer them up. The first person I ever helped said

This is a guest post by Chase Amante, founder of dating advice company Girls Chase. There she is: the most beautiful girl in the club. Or bar. Or in your class, or office, or the corner coffee shop, or the computer lab. You know… that place you always go to, and keep thinking to yourself

“Skate to where the puck’s going to be, not to where it has been.” This is the advice Walter Gretzky gave to his son, hockey great Wayne Gretzky. When you’re a beginner, it’s an accomplishment to simply have a conversation with an attractive woman. But once you’ve had a fair amount of conversations, text exchanges,

Is there something wrong with me because I experience approach anxiety? This is one of the biggest questions guys ask. The paralysis of approach anxiety can feel like a disease, as if you have a mental illness for experiencing it. I could tell you that most guys experience some type of fear when trying to

Confidence is a loaded word. How many times have you read in a popular magazine that women are attracted to confidence? The word has been thrown around so much that it’s lost all meaning. That’s why you won’t see the word even once in my upcoming book. Still, understanding the concept can go a long

You want to be natural. We all do. Your interactions with women shouldn’t feel forced or fake. You want to be yourself. Confidence is being able to express yourself in almost any situation. But as you’re improving with women, the main problem: That ‘self’ gets locked up inside. And getting it out ain’t easy. One

. See the top of this chart? It’s not a point, it’s an arrow. That’s not an accident. Here’s a secret that “successful” people won’t tell you:

There are too many things wrong with me. My forehead is ridiculously high, my skin too white. My eyes are too small. They’ve been described as “squinty” by tactless friends. My jawline is anything but strong. I hide it with a beard. All the fashion now. I’m getting older, and still I’m typically not the