There are many good reasons to avoid being Facebook friends with women you want to date. It almost always works against you. I actively avoid it. If they try to be friends with me, I tell them I don’t use Facebook too much. No doubt, when she’s really hot, you want to look at all

As you start to get more confident, it starts to happen to you more often. Women will compliment you. Sometimes it happens out of the blue, and sometimes it’s after she’s gotten to know you. Learning to accept compliments takes a bit of practice. As an introverted guy, you may feel uncomfortable or embarrassed at

(Thanks to John!)

There’s been a lot of discussion about the limitations of getting attractive women unless you yourself are physically attractive. One of the most important things you can do to improve your looks is to improve your fashion. In many ways, fashion is more important to women because it conveys something physical attractiveness cannot: social intelligence.

My good friend Scott, an evolutionary psychologist,posted an article about speed dating on his blog, ScottandtheCity.com. “Where are all the suave speed daters?” he asks. I recently went to a speed dating event for the first time andhad a really good experience. Compared to internet dating, speed dating is a great addition to approaching women.

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There’s a lot of talk about different ways to minimize anxiety. But if you’re really serious about getting past anxiety, you may want to consider two very simple solutions. This week, Time Magazine has an interesting article about the effect of exercise on depression and anxiety (Is Exercise the Best Drug for Depression?). Various studies

Reddit.com has a great thread, What’s the ballsiest pickup move you’ve witnessed? A lot of interesting posts, especially interesting because it’s not coming from the pickup community. One of my favorites: I was introduced to a superhot girl at a party once in college and instead of the usual nice-to-meet-you I told her, “I hate

Dynamite’s gonna shake up the tree from the roots and rake up the fruits.

This being human is a guest house. Every morning a new arrival. A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor. Welcome and entertain them all! Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still, treat each guest honorably. He may be