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Nov 16

Thirty years ago, Dr. Stanley Milgram requested his graduate students perform an experiment. They were to go down into the subways of New York City and, over and over, ask people if they could have their seat. “Excuse me, may I have your seat?” Originally, the experiment was conducted to see just how many people

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Oct 25

A former mentoring student of mine sent me an e-mail this week. Hi Eric, I seduced a hot girl that I briefly worked with. After I hook up with a girl, I usually ask her for her views on sex and seduction.So I asked this girl how she likes to meet men. She said she

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Jul 15

I quit going to the gym. Why? Is it because I’m lazy? Nope. I’m driven as hell. Is it because I don’t want to get huge and muscular? Nope. I’d love to have a killer physique. It’s for one reason: Time. Every morning, I get up and I workout for about 20 minutes before breakfast.

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Jul 12

I don’t like when women fight over me. I’m not enticed by the prospect of a two-woman bar brawl ignited over the possibility of going home with me. Can’t we all just get along? I scan the uptown restaurant/bar, looking for my friend Mike. I haven’t seen Mike in a while, so it will be

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Jun 4

I’ve just finished a coaching session. As I step onto the subway platform, I pull out my book to read while I wait for the train. A very cute blonde girl with plaid pants and a low-cut blouse slowly walks by as if she’s heading nowhere in particular. So without hesitation, I tap her on

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May 31

In our attempt to minimize emotional pain and discomfort, often times we as men are too ready to abandon an interaction with a woman. We do this assuming that she’s not interested because she hasn’t taken initiative or opened up yet. But I see it over and over again in coaching sessions: a guy will

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Apr 18

Commenter jasfile writes: What about consistency? If I would be honest, my opinion would be changing every other day at least. As I get more info on the subject, my point of view and my feelings about it change, sometimes even quite radically. But wouldn’t being honest make me look like a little bit of

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Nov 24

I’m walking through the farmer’s market in Union Square Park with my student. It’s packed with people. He’s practicing initiating interactions by simply asking for an opinion. He spots a cute girl with her friend moving along the crowded walkway. He walks up next to her, leans in and, while walking, asks, “Excuse me, miss,

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Sep 17

One of my close friends who himself is excellent with women, relays to me a story of seeing a natural in action. I’m riding the subway. It’s rush hour and the train is packed with people. The doors open and in walks a 10. She’s a tall, natural redhead, a successful business-woman type with confident

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Sep 7

As I get on to the subway platform, I’m tired. It’s 9 pm and I’ve been hanging out with Glenn and a friend in the park. I’m ready to just go home and chill. I see this incredibly cute blond girl. She glances over at me and back at the tracks. Is she into me,

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