I step onto the subway train. It’s crowded. It’s been a long day. I’m tired. I’m not in the mood for much. Sorta just feel like going home. But then I see her. She’s cute as a button. I make my way over to her. And then, I touch her on the arm as I

I do not hesitate to say Lance Mason from Pickup101 is amazing with women. But even more than that, Lance is one of the best teachers I know. I worked under his tutelage for years. The foundation for a lot of things I do now comes from Lance’s instruction. But Lance wasn’t always great with

This weekend I met up with a guy who has been working on the steps in She’s Six Steps Away. He was practicing being direct with women. He was able to walk up to a woman and open conversation by being direct. “Hi. I saw you here and I had to come talk with you,”

Guys waste a lot of time looking for two magic bullets: 1. Something that will consistently make them feel better 2. Something that will consistently make women feel better about them Searching for these magic bullets will lead to a lot of heartache and pain. Trying to feel better Feeling good is huge. It’s one

One of my former clients talks about his approach anxiety: “I’d been reading about how to do it for a while. Finally one night I said to myself, all right, I’m going to go out tonight and I’m going to try to talk to girls. I went out to this bar in my neighborhood. It

The Ballad of the Nice Guy (via Reddit)

I’m walking along the subway platform on my daily outing. I stop next to a girl. As I turn to her and ask her a question, I realize how cute she is, much cuter than I initially thought. “Does this go to 59th Street?” I ask her. I’m just warming up, asking different women basic

You want to be natural. We all do. Your interactions with women shouldn’t feel forced or fake. You want to be yourself. Confidence is being able to express yourself in almost any situation. But as you’re improving with women, the main problem: That ‘self’ gets locked up inside. And getting it out ain’t easy. One