Twelve years old. 5th grade. I picked a fight with the school bully. He accepted. “After school. I’m gonna kick your ass!” he said. When the 3 o’clock bell rang, the entire class walked to a backyard off of school property. I could feel my arms getting numb. I was paralyzed. Inhibited. I’d never felt

This is one of my biggest secrets to getting past approach anxiety. To understand the beginning–how getting physical can help you start conversations with women–let’s look at the end game. In this video, Cory Skyy, a fantastic natural, talks about how to make a move on a girl when she’s at your place. In and

I’ve posted before about Missed Connections. A few days ago, someone posted the ultimate Missed Connection on Craigslist. The link has since expired. Missed Connection – m4w. I saw you on the Manhattan-bound Brooklyn Q train. I was wearing a blue-striped t-shirt and a pair of maroon pants. You were wearing a vintage red skirt

This post is from Hurricane Lee. You can approach girls. You can ask for the time. You can ask for directions. You can ask a few related follow-up questions But you can’t transition into a personal conversation. Sounds familiar? You are not alone. Everyone starting out in game has the same problem. Everyone. Why? Because

At some point, you realize that what you’re doing just isn’t working. You’re too tame, too friendly, too passive, and too nice. Too many opportunities are slipping through your fingers because you aren’t making the move. So you learn new strategies that are edgier, bolder, and more sexual. You start to take risks with attractive

One of the most commonly discussed concepts in dating is not being ‘outcome dependent.’ The idea is that during interactions with women you shouldn’t be too focused on getting a specific result. That result could be: getting a good reaction from her getting a phone number getting a date having sex getting into a relationship

Most men walk around insecure about their looks. They feel bad that they can’t attract certain women because they themselves aren’t physically attractive enough. They walk around with a feeling that attraction for women works the same way it does for men. Most men haven’t had enough experience initiating interactions with women they don’t know.

Is there something wrong with me because I experience approach anxiety? This is one of the biggest questions guys ask. The paralysis of approach anxiety can feel like a disease, as if you have a mental illness for experiencing it. I could tell you that most guys experience some type of fear when trying to

What does flossing have to do with meeting women? Everything. And nothing. Let me explain. I like to floss in the shower. I’m weird like that. I get into the shower, I floss and I move onto the next step. The other day, I was feeling really lazy and decided to skip a day. Bad