Break the Habit of Being Yourself

by Eric Disco
Mar 10

What would happen if you truly believed you were the most attractive guy on earth?

If you believed that every woman you spoke to would be just thrilled to speak to you.

That the minute women laid eyes on you, they wanted to sleep with you.

Let’s say in reality, you were an average looking dude. Not Hollywood average—truly average. But you believed you were ridiculously attractive.

Do you believe that this thinking would an effect on your life?

Of course it would.

If you knew every woman would be receptive to you, you would walk into interactions with ridiculous confidence.

And women would respond in kind. Don’t take my word for it, read the scientific studies.

So why can’t you just decide that you are the most attractive guy on the planet and go forth and multiply?

Your brain reflects your environment. It is wired based on past experiences, and routine behaviors reinforce the same patterns.

Most people live on autopilot, repeating the same routines and interactions daily, hoping to change without making real shifts.

To change your mind, you have to change who you are. You have to change your personality.

Your personality creates your reality. Your thoughts, behaviors, and emotions define your life. To change your life, you must change these core elements.

But it can’t be rewired by just deciding to think or feel differently. Your thoughts and feelings are out of your control.

The only control you have in rewiring your mind is your actions.

Once you consistently start to leave your home and use your physical body, your mind starts to change.

Repetition strengthens neural pathways. The more you take the same actions the stronger those patterns become.

The body becomes the mind.

Over time, repeated behaviors become ingrained habits.

Breaking free requires reconditioning.

Most men wait for crisis or trauma to force change, but transformation can happen through learning and conscious effort.

The hardest part? Making the time.

The biggest challenge isn’t the process—it’s committing the time to actually do it.

So where to begin? The first step is to consistently step out of your home and go places where women are.

You don’t have to do anything else as a first step.

You don’t have to talk to women.

You don’t have to put yourself near them.

You don’t have to do anything once you get out.

You just have to put the habit into motion: going out where attractive women are.

Once this is a habit, the next steps start to take care of themselves.

This isn’t to say the next steps are easy; just that it won’t feel like an impossible task.

Your body is now in the world. And your mind starts to change, to rewire itself.

And a confident, sexy guy starts to become who you are, instead of something you’re trying to be.

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