Where do you draw the line between confident and cocky? Between assertive and aggressive? How do you walk around like you think highly of yourself, but not like you think you’re better than everyone else? Guys are always trying to reach that line. But they usually fail. I’ll illustrate why with an example. In coaching

Me and my wing, Lee, have spent a long time going out together meeting women. We’ve developed some effective ways of working together that are completely original. Below I talk about some ways we work together when meeting women during the day and at bars at night. The Importance of Positioning When Being Indirect Positioning

In creating She’s Six Steps Away, I had one thing in mind: getting guys past their fear of approaching women. There are a myriad of other skills you can learn when it comes to women: Banter, physical contact, getting sexual, dating, phone game, qualification, disqualification, etc. All of those are worth learning and I talk

Is there something wrong with me because I experience approach anxiety? This is one of the biggest questions guys ask. The paralysis of approach anxiety can feel like a disease, as if you have a mental illness for experiencing it. I could tell you that most guys experience some type of fear when trying to

What does flossing have to do with meeting women? Everything. And nothing. Let me explain. I like to floss in the shower. I’m weird like that. I get into the shower, I floss and I move onto the next step. The other day, I was feeling really lazy and decided to skip a day. Bad

Lately, this one of the most common problems I notice in my advanced coaching clients. In bars, he’ll interact with women like this. He starts with some banter. “You guys look like trouble. I can see what’s going on here!” The girls laugh. Maybe he jokes a bit more. Then he transitions into personal conversation.

In my program, She’s Six Steps Away, I tend to focus more on meeting women during the day. I prefer daytime for a few reasons, particularly for guys starting out. – The environment is less frenetic. – You’re more likely to find women who are alone. – It’s easier to go out alone on a

It started off as any other interaction. It was morning and I was on my way out of town. I get on the subway train. There’s an open seat next to a girl, so I immediately sit down next to her. She seemed cute. Not super cute but cute enough to talk to. I hadn’t

They lurk in the darkness. They scurry around, invisible and silent, gnawing away at the support structures. Somewhere in there, my fears. On a random night, when it’s late, I flip on the light switch, and there they are, too many to count. Perhaps it was triggered by something. A failure somewhere, where I had

In response to The Core of Relationship Management: You are the Prize, a comenter asks an excellent question: I have been with my partner JUST under a year known her for about 2 months before we started dating. I believe i am weak at times, i hate her being mad at me, she can crack