At some point, you realize that what you’re doing just isn’t working. You’re too tame, too friendly, too passive, and too nice. Too many opportunities are slipping through your fingers because you aren’t making the move. So you learn new strategies that are edgier, bolder, and more sexual. You start to take risks with attractive

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Pickup Podcast is the premier name in the business when it comes to audio interviews. In this interview we discuss my new book, “She’s Six Steps Away” and give away excellent tips for guys who have trouble starting conversations with attractive women. What is approach anxiety? How to get past approach anxiety Why you need

A guy I know caught his girlfriend cheating on him. But instead of leaving her, he stuck around for months playing tug of war over the girl with the other guy. Who would put up with a girl openly cheating on him? Who would put up with a girl treating him like shit? When a

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