Some girl on Reddit posted this profile of a guy from OKCupid.
Listened to 14 years worth of complaints about bad boyfriends, your bad day and everything else that’s wrong with you.
Have helped hundreds, possibly thousands of people just by listening and trying to cheer them up. The first person I ever helped said she stopped cutting herself because she had me. Another person told me she’d never, ever say “I love you” to anyone again the day she met me, later she said it to me. So I kept on helping. “I’m not looking for wealth or glory, I’m just buying that stairway to heaven Jesus sang about.”
Lots of heart, kindness, caring. To this point it’s been thrown away by jerks. So lots of hurt too. It’s not possible for me to have been any nicer to people than I have but no good deed goes unpunished and all that.
Still believe in chivalry.
I spend a lot of time thinking about Why girls have such incredibly bad taste in guys. “He locked her in a box for months on end and called her ugly and gay”…yah…and /’m the one that can’t find a gf!?!?
You want someone that’s sweet, kind, caring, wants you for you and nothing else after all the complaining how you can’t eeevvveeerrr find someone like that and it would make you s00000000 happy to have such a guy…and then throw him away when you get it.
You should message me if you are sweet and caring. Not just one of those people that say you are then act like a total ass when it’s time to show it.
Sex thing, not a chance. Nil. Ziltch. Nadda. Zero. Not only has every girl I dated that already had sex cheated on me I’ve promised someone that if I ever changed my mind on it she’d be the first I ask. It’s been a very long time and she once told me I was the prince charming she dreamed of when she was a little girl so I would NOT do that to her. I wouldn’t do it to anyone really. If I would I’d be a terrible person and you wouldn’t want me anymore. But the point is were I to change it I’d have to ask her and she’d still say yes.
Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to be my girlfriend.
What makes me cringe is that this guy is an extreme version of the way I used to be back in the day.
When you adopt a self-righteous demeanor like this, you can blame everyone but yourself when things don’t go your way.
If you always play the angel, you never have to go through the pain of stepping outside of your comfort zone and doing things that scare you.
The scary part is that you can stay a momma’s boy like this all your life if you don’t figure out how to change.
And you’ll think there’s something wrong with the world instead of yourself until your dying day.
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