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Calling is preferred when there has been some time you haven’t spoke. Tone of voice, jokes etc give warmth.
But after this a serious of text messages is more practical and possibly more arousing…

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Well these are the most energetic women on bed which often means there aren’t that hot.
And surely she is nuts…
I wouldn’t spend lots of energy since she can be persistent and ultimately get on my nerves.
That’s why they say why guys love so much blowjobs… Because they enjoy 15 minutes of silence…..!

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Another hard one.
You already are in a low value position.
You can only revert by showing DHV.
Eg. On Tuesday night I am signing contacts for a percentage stake in a latin night club and will most probably be busy till midnight
(Then second message is) we may meet after midnight for a relaxing drink, this I can do…

something along those lines

you market and sell yourself.

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I think you deeply already know what to do next.
Disinterest.
she will start feeling that with her awkward behaviour she lost you.
I don’t really know why but women just buy into this technique very easily.
The pleasure i had every time i did it was surreal. Like a perfect salesman’s pitch.

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A terrific movie that i can’t remember its name now had a good saying
“The pain of doing it is much better than the guilt of not doing it”….

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Dyonisos is spot on.
a yes is more alarming than a no.

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Thanks for the input.
I need to share with you my progress with it.
Now I do it 3 times in a row and I mention that I will use this to read her personality and comment on her decisions to place it any particular hand in the way I like. Guess what? They stay with their mouth open. One of them even blushed.
All ask me to know more and i found best to say nothing and promise to tell them exactly how it works next time we meet, if chance brings us together again sometime…
I much easier get contact info and still enjoy this new world I had never the opportunity to capitalise on.
It’s that powerful.

I will keep you posted.

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Girls love game indeed but in my opinion then they just fill their ego and give you less possibilities to seduce them…

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Finding the right thing to say is a trap.

So true and simple that we engineers, mathematicians, scientists etc tend to forget so often.

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First acting is required.
And acting is a necessary part in many aspects of our lives. For example policeman stops you. You act a little. You give an interview. You act a little. Etc etc. It can be even very enjoying to do so with girls. How much is up to you. Mess it up and next time you will be better.
Second boost your confidence by being around chicks that like you. Some girls like musicians. Others like body builders. Etc etc. If you are around these girls you get attention and some flirting and you can be really cool when you want to hit that higher standard girl.

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Will I ask too much how this directions question led to flirting and eventually dating.
Really curious and interested

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Looks, apparent status are a prerequisite.
Good Vibe is an optional add-on.
After this, a soft neg can be an opener that will arouse her curiosity and interest.
I really fancy mystery’s negs like “I can’t stand you anymore…”

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Yes SomeguyUK rocked with this one…
Narcissus teasing style

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I would also add “so sad, I had some nice plans about our time together” to let her imagine what the heck she wishes to imagine. She will answer “don’t worry you will have the opportunity next time” and I would say “sure!!!”

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Since it’s more than obvious that you aren’t high in her list at the present moment I would simply play the “ok friends” game and would answer “no problem we can speak some days before and check again with our schedules. I will put a reminder on my phone so don’t bother calling me, I will call you…”
And then I should of course put the reminder at least 1 week after the day she suggests and then follow up again with a busy and little paranoid attitude.

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