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  • in reply to: How far in advance? #71058
    loves2smile
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    I was talking with people before she got there and during this time, I wasn’t able to talk to her at all. It’s not like I didn’t want to, but it’s just that every time she’s alone I’m in the middle of chatting with someone and whenever I’m alone, she’s chatting with someone. How would/should I isolate her, if I should isolate her at all?

    I am curious, though, as every week when we hangout at a friend’s house, I always chat with her once. This was one of the only times when I didn’t. Would she get a negative vibe from my lack of ‘trying’ to talk to her?

    in reply to: How far in advance? #71054
    loves2smile
    Participant

    She responded tonight on the night of the event with:

    Her: Sorry I’m just now responding to u. Its been a crazy week and i’m not gonna be able to make it tonight. Sorry. See u Mon.

    This Monday we’re hanging out with friends; it’s not just her and me. So I don’t think it counts as an alternative.

    She responded tonight on the night of the event with:

    Her: “Sorry I’m just now responding to u. Its been a crazy week and i’m not gonna be able to make it tonight. Sorry. See u Mon.”
    This Monday we’re hanging out with friends; it’s not just her and me. So I don’t think it counts as a counteroffer.

    So it’s obvious she’s not that into me anymore and I think my next step is to pull back until she starts to show interest again. What did you think of that text?

    I know the bottom line is: she took two days to reply and she didn’t give a counteroffer so there’s probably no point in continuing with her. Especially from the looks of this last text. Thoughts?

    in reply to: Should I confirm date? #71008
    loves2smile
    Participant

    I gave her an event flyer which has the time/date and address for the gallery, but I suppose I should send a “You know how to get there” text anyway as a feeler?

    in reply to: Slow momentum with girl #70971
    loves2smile
    Participant

    I didn’t respond to her last text since it was sent last Wednesday.

    We won’t run into each other again until Sunday/Monday. How should I proceed when that happens? We have mutual acquaintances that we hang out with, so it’s inevitable we run into each other by intention or by accident at least once a week.

    Thanks for any insight.

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