[EJ_ap]

Ok you jumping ahead of time. However, if you get back she should be the one on her own to stop doing that not you telling her. If she doesn’t stop and continue doing it you know the answer. Drop her. You Don’t want to live in misery thinking what is she doing now, who us she texting. Break up with her immediately.

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Nothing you say will convince her. She has to come to the decision on her own. Everything you say to her can backfire. Give her space. A month or so with absolutely no contact. Ignore her calls, texts, emails. I know it’s easier said then done but you have to do it. Let her realize she loosing you. Maybe after that month you can send her a text and see how that goes. Something simple though. Then you might meet for a coffee or so. And slowly start talking again.

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I was thinking of texting and cancelling myself and reschedule first cause it might have been too late of a notice. I tend to think that being straight up and having no chase in the game pushes them away. I see people don’t have much luck with this type of approach. Although she was responding right away

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Ok, her response was i don’t know with a smiley. So i suggested to do something on Sunday. She said can’t Sunday because out of town.

[EJ_ap]

Just to clarify, should i contact her the following days or wait few days?

[EJ_ap]

Excellent. Thanks

[EJ_ap]

Ok, update. She left me her phone number. Now when is the best time to tell her to meet me sometime next week? Or maybe Sunday?

Thanks for all advices. Appreciate it.

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Maybe i’m overthinking but right after she told me let’s do it some other time ( she didb’t exactly specified when she is free) i said exactly as you said. I’ll check my schedule and get back to you. Then i said should i contact you through facebook or can i have your number? She hasn’t responded since.
So now if i tell her again where to meet me wouldn’t sound either needy or too pushy?

[EJ_ap]

Thanks Lee and ryano for the replies. I am leaning more towards Lee’s advice on it. I can’t directly approach her since we already been chatting few times. So that will sound weird. Plus if she says no I’ll fall into that category next guy who asked her out in the gym. Don’t think she has been tapping guys. I know many tried but she cuts them off.

Lee, what would you say? How many days in advance i should offer her that? I don’t really like expression tag along. Sounds like something you say to a puppy. Perhaps something like you should pass by for a drink?
I tried this approach with my facebook but i told that one day in advance and girl said she already has plans. Then she said let’s do it another time. What should you do in this case?

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