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  • in reply to: Day Game for Various Situations #74258
    BlueJay
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    Thanks a lot, Eric!

    Interesting points.

    I was learning from a Mystery Method instructor and the way he would explain Transitions was something that is stimulating, like an observation, opinion opener, teasing compliment or a short fun PUA routine like girls fighting outside or 5 questions game etc.

    Some of those seem strange to me during the day though.

    But the way you explain Transitions is that it is something which shifts the conversation from the Opener to something personal about her, if I’m not mistaken.

    Interesting difference.

    I noticed an attractive girl sitting alone on a bench by the beach today and I drew a blank. Didn’t know what to say. I can think of some openers now but not many. But I had no idea what kind of follow up material I would have used after the Opener in that situation. What kind of transition etc. Would you have any suggestions? Thanks!

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    in reply to: Is Your Game Under the Radar? #74222
    BlueJay
    Participant

    Thanks a lot Eric! Very thorough as usual.

    in reply to: Opener and Material for Train Station #74188
    BlueJay
    Participant

    Thanks Eric! I have your book but I think I saw somewhere that you have some approaches recorded? Are those accessible?

    in reply to: Too late #74187
    BlueJay
    Participant

    Hey Upboot, I’m curious, where do you live? I’ve experienced the same situations since I’ve lived in Toronto, Canada and then England. I could be out all day downtown in Toronto and not see 1 attractive woman. Same thing in England. It made me give up for a long time. My plan now is to move somewhere good.

    in reply to: What is Your Usual Day Game Opener? #74172
    BlueJay
    Participant

    Thanks a lot, Eric!

    So do you still follow the system in your book? –

    Open, say something about yourself, then say something about her?

    For example –

    Ask directions

    Ask follow up question/tell her it’s because you’re bringing some friends. Talk for a bit.

    Then make assumption about her

    Something like that?

    Do you use that old pick up stuff of Demonstrating Higher Value in what you say? And do you try to tease/neg usually and qualify her?

    Thanks man

    in reply to: Day Game Material #74167
    BlueJay
    Participant

    Thanks so much Eric!

    in reply to: Cashier Girl #74152
    BlueJay
    Participant

    Amazing response Eric. Thanks a lot!

    in reply to: Overcome Nightgame Anxiety or Quit? #74149
    BlueJay
    Participant

    Really appreciate your time and help Eric and Cartoox. Great advice.

    in reply to: Day Vs Night Game #74144
    BlueJay
    Participant

    Damn, I can’t really approach here. They’re a bit more closed off than people in the English speaking world. I’m also highly sensitive to rejection or any kind of cold reaction, however slight that may be.

    in reply to: Day Vs Night Game #74143
    BlueJay
    Participant

    Thanks guys.

    Have you guys noticed a difference in game in any way since Tinder etc has blown up? Seems like most people meet that way now and want to check out your online presence, kind of like a resume. I may be wrong on that tho. Curious if you’ve noticed a change in day game cold approach before and after dating apps/Instagram.

    Also, something I’ve noticed – I’m currently in a foreign country. I can speak a bit of the language. Enough to open and then transition to English. But I guess the fact that I’d be standing out as a foreigner gives me added approach anxiety. It’s easier for me in an English speaking country. But I guess same steps apply? Just gradually desensitise?

    Thanks!

    in reply to: Medication for Approach/Social Anxiety #74139
    BlueJay
    Participant

    Thanks Eric

    in reply to: Medication for Approach/Social Anxiety #74136
    BlueJay
    Participant

    Hey Eric,

    Thanks a lot for the reply. Very interesting points. Yeah, I have to make some major changes and try everything.

    That’s a very interesting article about Propranolol.

    I have a follow up question –

    I was dating a girl last year and it was super intoxicating. She has emotional/psychological issues and Borderline Personality Disorder. It was an emotional rollercoaster and I overlooked many red flags. It was also a long distance relationship.

    She ended things and I’ve been a TOTAL mess for half a year now. But I want to ask – do you notice that guys with major approach/social anxiety are much more easily hurt because they don’t have abundance mentality due to the anxiety? Like, this girl found another guy right away but it’s been over half a year of me being single and hurting.

    Should a guy even enter a relationship if he has these anxiety issues and can’t generate abundance? Feels like playing with fire. Thanks

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