You know they like you….
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December 24, 2013 at 4:15 pm #71096themaxx1097Participant
I’ve been in many instances where I known girls for a couple of years and they are giving all of the signals but you know they are either married or in relationships. I talk about other women and they get jealous or they are so out of whack about it. I tease, flirt with them and they laugh, slap my shoulders or arm. And the eye contact is definitely there too. There are days when I do dress up and they check me out head to toe.
Not to be arrogant, they’re into me because I see the signals….but I don’t push forward because they’re “married” or in “relationships.”
Part of me is saying, I don’t want to be “on deck” with these women. I don’t mind getting some.
What advice could you give me on this?January 1, 2014 at 12:55 am #71097Eric DiscoKeymaster
There are certain signals that indicate attraction. If a woman is looking you deep in the eyes, she’s likely more attracted than if she’s looking away, bored and disinterested.
However, all of these attraction “signals” don’t mean a whole lot unless they are accompanied by one thing: sex. Women are excellent at acting like they’re into you, showing you affection, and manipulating you so that you’ll act the way they want you to act, so that you’ll play a part.
Maybe these women are looking for a stand-in for the affection they’re not getting from their boyfriends. Maybe they like the attention they’re getting. Maybe your game is somewhat tight–you tease them, etc.–and that makes them work for your interest.
But just because they want your interest doesn’t mean that they were attracted to you–at least no in a way that will lead to sex. This is sort of like how a guy can fake interest in a girl to get sex and then “lose” interest afterward. He was actually never really interested in her as a person, he only wanted sex.
Unless you’re escalating with these women–taking things to the next level–those indicators of interest aren’t worth much.
Long story short, you need to work on your escalation. Get these women in places where sex could possibly happen–like your house. That should be your first goal. Start capitalizing on all that “interest” and see where it leads you. Because signals can be deceiving, especially from women.
EricJanuary 1, 2014 at 3:42 am #71098-Humz-Participant
Wow Eric, that was absolutely incredible. That makes so much sense and it actually helps me with what I’m going through at the moment.
Also, I don’t know how much appreciation you’ve been getting from the pick-up community because of the work you’ve done but, honestly man, you deserve so much more. So thank you for everything you’ve done and for all your help. I hope this next year brings you more joy and excitement. Happy new year to you and to all the posters here. It’s been fun reading your stories.
Special mention to Lee. You sir, are a BAWS!
HumzJanuary 6, 2014 at 7:40 pm #71105Eric DiscoKeymaster
Thanks for the feedback, Humz. I appreciate it!
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