When to surrender

[The_Hurricane]

We talk a lot about being the man and keeping her on her toes and staying attractive to other women and being social even while we’re in a relationship. But we don’t really talk about how to surrender.

Suppose you’ve been dating for a while and your girlfriend wants to be exclusive? What’s the actual language for accepting a proposal to be exclusive? What can you do to be the man even while you’re in the relationship? What should you allow her to do while she’s in an exclusive relationship with you? What should you do if she strays over that line? What are the signs that she’s straying?

I’m opening this up for discussion.

–Lee

[Marshall74]

Hey lee how about she has to nock before comming
In my place. Lol
I do it at her place and it drives her crazy. Haha.
Drives her nuts.
I think being exclusive is done through the amount of time spent? Thats the way i heard it in one of erics interviews.

[zhelyazko]

A thing I have been contemplating on recently is compassion vs dependence. Being good to people, but not needing any sort of reaction from them. You treat people with respect and trust, but if that trust is broken you simply walk away?

The issue of how much time/ effort to invest in friends/ loved ones has always been a difficult one for me. On the one hand, you have your goals and you can be pretty independent. On the other hand, it is good to be social, but that might breed neediness.

Kind Regards,
Zhelyazko

[The_Hurricane]

@Z,

I agree with everything you said.

–Lee

[Marshall74]

Hey Z
Great post!
Agree and through those same feelings/thoughts your having i seem to be gravitating towards a “lighter” side of things. I seem to be attracting more light hearted ppl along the way. Its refreshing to me.

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