Success rate- what is "average"

[MrAntiquity]

moreover…why should numbers even matter, anyway? Isn’t the goal to get from “Not-Dating” to “Dating”? Or, more specifically, from being passive about meeting women to being active?

I mean–you’re probably not going to get to Gene Simmons or Wilt Chamberlain level. Maybe you won’t even be dating as much as your friend next door, who’s always bringing someone back to his place. But it shouldn’t matter.

Other thing about that 0 in 340 number, Z–is that it says that not only are you probably acting in some way that may be putting them off–but also that you’re not recognizing at all when they might be receptive. You need to work on reading the girl as much as modifying your own presentation.

[MrAntiquity]

@Z also–you don’t have any audio of yourself, do you? I don’t like the idea of secretly videotaping people…but audio could be helpful.

[zhelyazko]

@MrAntiquity, thank you for the advice. I hear you, I know I am doing something wrong. I am experimenting until I find out what it is. I need to be more persistent as well.

I don’t have any recordings. It might be something I will need to resort to.

[MrAntiquity]

OK @Z–talk to some girls this week. Give us some transcripts–try to remember almost word for word–and try to remember where you’re losing these girls. Also try to think about what you’re feeling/experiencing. Easier to actually watch you of course, but maybe the coalition here can find something.

Fact is, you don’t need all that much “game” to get some girls to show some interest, but you do need to have something that draws them in. Somehow you’re driving them away from you–maybe folks here can piece together where that is.

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