Setting up a "date" during the interaction

[sdl]

How often do you set up a time and place to meet up later during the initial interaction? Always? Sometimes it works really well for me but sometimes I can tell I’m coming on to strong and it would be better to be more casual. Is that the whole point? To find out if she’s really interested or just lukewarm about you?

[Eric Disco]

Yes, that is exactly the point, to find out if it really is on with this girl or not.

Generally if they seem like they’re not ready to set up a date at that point but they’re still interested, they’ll say something like, “Email me” or “Text me and we’ll figure it out.”

It’s also possible you’re doing this too early in the interaction. If you do this too soon, like in the first five minutes, you can come across as needy.

Eric

[sdl]

So do you ever end an interaction with a casual and vague “lets hang out sometime”, or is it not even worth it in your opinion?

[Eric Disco]

It’s worth it. Both ways can work and both ways work for different guys I know. Test both out. Keep track of your results. See which one works better for you. The way you close women should come automatically to you so you don’t really need to think about it. Once you find something that works for you, you’ll be in much better shape.

Eric

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