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[willingtolearn]

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Eric, bought your awesome book, it was great. Your input would be most appreciated. observe the following scenario.

I go to a social function three weeks ago near the weekend, hosted by a company mine is a client of. I meet a girl who works there, she is serving as hostess. I approach her, we have a good chat, except I had one too many because she poured too many (a possible shit test), so my decision making was impaired. So I made many little, correctable mistakes like grinning like an idiot. Also not enough intense eye contact, Which I have been working on ever since, along with great body language. It works great, girls come up to talk to me now, hehe.

In spite of errors, Still got her number. Our conversations keep on getting interrupted by bosses ordering her around and people wanting booze from her. So afterwards, I made the biggest doozy and that was leaving without feedback and saying goodbye.

I call her after my really busy weekend, no reply, so I left message and text. No response. I forgot her after two weeks, but then a coworker who wasn’t there and heard of my story and bugged me about it, so it rekindled my interest. So I texted her. No reply. Instead, her friend whom she looked up to, whom I talked to on the phone months ago, but never met, added me on a professional networking page. This is probably nothing.

Their company is hosting another party next week. I am going and I hope she will too. I’d like to finish the job this time, in spite of the other girls on the plate. I want to get what i want. Behold my battle plan: find her, secure and lock eye contact/smirk, motion her to come to me, ask her to an instant date after event, persist through excuses and resistance with superior eye contact and body language, hold my ground and do not waver.

But the thing is, what of the logistics afterwards? I should set a meeting time and place for the instant date, then part to talk to others. Seems more logical than sticking around and deflating the mystery. so everyone, please advise

(I modified this post to put it together into one -Eric)

[Eric Disco]

I call her after my really busy weekend, no reply, so I left message and text. No response.

Why both? Next time just do one. Both is coming on a bit strong.

So I texted her. No reply.

I’m curious what you texted her. If it was a light ping, okay.

Instead, her friend whom she looked up to, whom I talked to on the phone months ago, but never met, added me on a professional networking page. This is probably nothing.

Agreed. Probably means nothing.

Their company is hosting another party next week. I am going and I hope she will too. I’d like to finish the job this time, in spite of the other girls on the plate. I want to get what i want. Behold my battle plan: find her, secure and lock eye contact/smirk, motion her to come to me, ask her to an instant date after event, persist through excuses and resistance with superior eye contact and body language, hold my ground and do not waver.

Here’s what will most likely happen. You’ll see her, but she won’t give you the same attention she gave you last time. How do I konw? Because she didn’t respond to two of your texts. But let’s say that she does give you the same amount of attention. You’re not going to lock her in by heavy eye contact, as if your eye contact wasn’t strong enough last time. Too much eye contact = too much interest.

Your best bet is to flirt with other women in the place. Make the rounds. Be the life of the party. Come chat with her every once in a while. Make her fight for your attention. Show less interest in her rather than more. She already blew off two of your texts and phone calls. That is your only play at this point.

Eric

[Eric Disco]

Hi Eric,

Excellent advice, Eric. Thanks a lot. You’re like a Sun Tzu of dating.

Anyway, an update is that due to work commitments I did not end up going to the party. But it’s okay, I still got a number even though it was a flake. I’ll just pursue other women now.

Keep on being brilliant.

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