She’s probably telling the truth. Some women orgasm easily, for some it’s hard, and others it’s almost impossible. Some women can only come when they masturbate alone and can’t do it when they’re with a guy, or have trouble early on in the relationship before they’re comfortable.
One of the big things is that sometimes they don’t want to feel pressure to come. They don’t want you to try to hard to make her come. Sure, some women do want you to pull out all the stops and go crazy trying to make her orgasm, but I think your take on it is correct. Enjoy yourself first. That’s what women want. You want her to enjoy herself as well but you can’t force it. A lot of this has to do with how well she knows her body and how well she can make herself come.
Eric
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