Japan affair

Home page Forums Approach Forum Japan affair

Viewing 2 posts - 1 through 2 (of 2 total)
  • Author
  • #70994

    Hey peoples, I could use a bit of advice. Here is the deal; I am in Japan studying abroad for 6 months and recently came across an awesome girl. We met through some friends at a festival and hit it off, exchanged numbers, and went on our ways. She left town for 2 weeks and ended up contacting me when she returned. I scheduled a casual date that ended up in sex. Afterwards, she told me that she has this kind of/kind of not boyfriend who doesn’t live close by so they see each other twice month. She left that morning and contact me again that same evening to come over, for only reason as she came over at 11pm. Anyway, I’m leaving town for a week during this time her boyfriend is coming over. Before she left the last time she said she might not be able to sleep with me again because she is thinking about committing to her boyfriend.I am only here for a couple more months so I am smart enough to not get emotionally involved, but I wouldn’t mind having her around for the rest of the time. Any suggestions on how to make that happen?

    Eric Disco

    The way I treat the interaction at the beginning is the same whether she’s dating three other guys or not dating anyone. I keep it casual. I’m the guy who makes her feel free, not pressured. Pressure will always work against you.

    It’s difficult to tell how much she is into that other guy. But judging by the fact that she is hooking up with you, she’s probably not that into him. He’s probably pressuring her or they’ve been seeing each other for a long time and she feels like she should do try being exclusive with him.

    I would keep things light with her. Keep it fun. Still connect. But let her take initiative with you. Let her chase after you. Let her be the one to call you up to hang out. End interactions first.

    If she says, “We shouldn’t sleep together,” I agree with her. Say, “You are totally right.” And then keep sexually escalating with her while saying, “We shouldn’t do this.” It will make it a lot hotter for her and you’ll be twice as much fun as her boyfriend.


Viewing 2 posts - 1 through 2 (of 2 total)
  • You must be logged in to reply to this topic.