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  • #71209
    Guy Brush
    Participant

    So instead of a 1 on 1 we will be going out with mutual friends (she turned me down, is tagging along there, though).

    What would you reply to that kind of counteroffer?

    Also, flirt with everyone except her during that event?

    #71210
    The_Hurricane
    Keymaster

    More detail, please. You asked her out. She said no, but then suggested that you go out with friends and suggested a specific day / time?

    –Lee

    #71211
    Guy Brush
    Participant

    I asked her out, she can’t make the date, but will tag along when mutual friends (and me) are going out, which she was invited to by them.

    How would you reply?

    Intuitively I’d say flirting with at least one or two other girls then might be a good idea? Or ignore her outright?

    #71212
    The_Hurricane
    Keymaster

    First, I would have made sure that she knows you’re not going just for her by saying something like “not sure i can make it this saturday. but maybe another time.” Then I would go and pay absolutely no attention to her whatsoever. Say hello at the beginning. Say goodbye at the end. And ignore her completely throughout the event. Flirt with other girls. Talk to all the guys. Make sure she’s aware of your presence, but don’t interact with her unless she initiates the conversation. Even if she does, you should be the one to eventually break it off. Don’t spend too much time talking to her. Flirt a little and move on to other people. Right now, it’s very important to establish that you’re too cool to 1) feel rejected over what happened, and 2) you’re not going to chase her. After some time passes, you can start paying more attention to her, but never more than she’s paying to you.

    –Lee

    #71213
    Guy Brush
    Participant

    Alright, thanks, will do that & report back how it went.

    Anymore ideas/suggestions, feel free to write.

    #71228
    Guy Brush
    Participant

    Well, looks like wingmen can be in the way. ๐Ÿ˜›

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