This is a bit of a cheeky thread but something that intrigued me for years. Being back in the game I feel like I want to explore this psychological phenomenon a bit more and who better to ask that the ‘experts’ here.
I was never able to spark enough WOW in girl to make her want to sleep with me immediately (same day, same night, next day) I always took a fairly extensive period of ‘get to know you’…yet, everyday you see guys chatting up a girl in a bar and ending up hooking up same night, or on business trips etc.
What is it that those guys tell them that makes them so much more desirable, makes so much impact and creates so much intimacy?
What is it that you guys thing the women want to hear in those situations?
It can’t be purely physical because that would be random and what I observed is fairly consistent.
It’s not that I want to exploit it but more heal my own hurt self-esteem, improve my game and get rid of some of my complexes and pre-conceived notions that may not be correct.
A few things you’ll need to take things to the bedroom quicker:
Fast and persistent sexual escalation, including touching, talking about sex, busting on her, etc.
Bouncing the girl from location to location. Start off with an instant date, then move her to another location. All of these transitions should move her closer to your place.
Screening for the right woman. You’ll want to make sure you invest in a woman who is willing to go for something like this. That means you’ll want to get sexual fast (the unwilling women will move on). You’ll want to check for logistics: if she has plans with her friends in an hour, it won’t work.
This is the kind of thing where you could invest a lot of time and energy only for it to go no where after a few hours. Not exactly my thing but it may be fun to try if you’re looking for a new experience.
I think it is going to be fun. Thanks Eric!
The season is not really on my side but I may be able to lure them in with the prospect of heat being on:)
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