(for the Nth time) Two and three sets during the day
October 18, 2014 at 5:24 pm #72013zhelyazkoParticipant
How do you recommend I start a conversation with two or three sets during the day (all girls)? I have tried “Can I get your advice about something.. Imagine you are a guy… blah blah” and that seems to be ok. I am wondering if there is anything better?
ZhelyazkoOctober 20, 2014 at 5:00 pm #72081The_HurricaneKeymaster
Presumably, when you open two and three sets, they’re talking to each other. If they’re not, just do Deep Thoughts on the one you want to talk to. When they’re talking to each other, the opener I teach is “This… is a conversation about boys!” They will confirm or deny that it is, or tell me that the conversation is about work, or whatever.
If the conversation is not about boys, I say “It’s just as well because my theory is that women know nothing about men. Nothing”
If the conversation IS about boys, I say “It’s my theory that women know nothing about men. Nothing.”
They usually chime in to protest or tell me that men know nothing about women either and I go on like this:
“I saw a study recently where they took several thousand men and asked them to send in pictures of wives, girlfriends, and mistresses, under a promise of anonymity. Then they removed the labels and asked all the men to rate all of the pictures by attractiveness 1 to 10. So all the men rated all of the women 1 to 10. This is the part that most women find shocking. What is it?”
They usually guess wrong but sometimes they guess right and I get to marvel at their insight and give them a hug. If not, I continue:
“The wives and girlfriends beat the mistresses by a wide margin, so the reason that women think men cheat, to find someone younger and sexier is not correct.”
They usually ask why men cheat. If they don’t I ask them “Why do they cheat?”
They usually get it wrong, so I eventually tell them: “The conclusion of the study was that men are very hierarchical. When they feel they’ve lost leverage in their own relationship, they will go seek out someone who is on average less desirable than the person they’re with so they can feel powerful again. We’re the weaker gender. We’re much more insecure about our place in life.” (Pause. To the girl I’m interested in:) “Have you ever been cheated on? Better yet, have you ever cheated?”
Great topic of conversation. This is a pretty long story, so make sure to make it interactive as I did above. Don’t just go in there and read it all out as a script.
This is also the opener I use in night game because, in night game, girls are not usually alone.
–LeeOctober 23, 2014 at 3:01 pm #72106zhelyazkoParticipant
Thank you, Lee. This stuff is gold. Especially during the night, most girls I see are with a friend or two. Now I don’t have to think of something different to say each time.
And for walking sets I will have to teach myself to just go full direct with “look fucking delicious” and if she says no- who cares 🙂
ZhelyazkoOctober 23, 2014 at 3:50 pm #72109MrAntiquityParticipant
Regarding the discussion here and in the last thread–if you’re batting zero with girls, but you’re not afraid to approach them hundreds of times, I don’t think that saying “you’re fucking delicious” is a good move for you. You’re not losing these girls because you’re not going super-direct–there’s some other underlying reasons that you need to figure out.
Seems to me you should probably stick with lower-key stuff until you can find what’s going wrong in the transition.October 23, 2014 at 4:02 pm #72111
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