Fear is almost gone
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Another update…I went to a rock club last night where and made out with a really hot dancer who was working there. Also I approached another really hot girl who was extremely bitchy to me at first, but 10 minutes later I was leaning back on the bar with her and her friend asking me rapport questions and being really sweet. It was amazing to feel the change in dynamic happening.
I have never had stuff like this happen to me before. I was always the guy getting shut down immediately and walking away feeling like crap. I am now seeing the difference that a little confidence and knowledge of social dynamics can make.
Mind=blown. Can not thank the guys on this website enough for all the insights.
Hey….thats great man !!
I still have to overcome the AA when approaching a chick in a cafe with a lot of people or if she’s seated in a hard to reach position…..Fabulous !!
btw, forgot to ask, was it a direct approach or did you use indirect openers in the cafe and in the subway ?
Cafe I went direct, just told her she was cute. On the subway I went with deep thoughts.
I’m always scared to approach girls sitting down too, trying to push myself to do it more.
@Cartoox – forgot to say, I used your line about leopard print on the dancer girl, as she had a leopard print tattoo. It worked like a charm!
glad it worked .. ! this is the same girl you’ve opened the latest thread on right ?
Fabulous ! you’re gonna have a crazy summer at this rate !