Reply To: Talking to woman who present themselves in a hyper-sexulized manner.

[Eric Disco]

Thanks for the awesome advice Eric! I had the chance to try a bit of this and the results were not entirely what I was expecting. The more I had neutral or even dismissive body language the more the girls seemed to not even care I was there. I would engage them trying different methods, head on, facing the same direction so we’re side to side, etc. The head on worked best, oddly. It seemed they felt more of a ‘presence’ from me, and being the only guy that didn’t simply ask for a picture or say a bunch of “oh my god you’re so hot’ BS they seemed into it. Half the women seemed completely bored out of their minds just standing at a booth for 8 hours in uncomfortable latex costumes. I think they were happy to have anyone to talk to that wasn’t just there to creep out on them.

Conversely, when I attempted the same thing from a neutral stance, they seemed to feel they could ignore me, almost like I wasn’t ‘committed’ to the engagement. Naturally, this was just me and there’s only so many conclusions that can be derived from such a limited data set but they were interesting results all the same.

Do you have any insight as to what might have been going on here?