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@Lee you said “If you get women into comfortable conversations – conversations in which they feel your interest but feel no pressure to consider you a romantic prospect – and then ask for contact info, guess what? You’re going to get it because it’s so comfortable for them to keep talking to you that it makes it all the more uncomfortable to say no”

This is perfect. That’s where I am now. I get into comfortable conversations all the time (which is great, a huge accomplishment for me) but most of the time nothing comes of it. I know a lot of it is that I’m still unsure of myself and I just need more experience but what do you do to break through that “niceness” and “comfort”? At first I didn’t understand why the numbers were mostly flaky but now I can sense whats happening, though I’m still trying to figure out how to rise above it.