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October 18, 2013 at 7:56 pm #71050
I got another question for you:
Let’s say, I saw a woman, stood next to her, said something, but could NOT stay for a while. So I left her.
My mind would then be bombarded with negative voices such as “HOW COME YOU DIDN’T……?” or “YOU’LL NEVER BE GOOD WITH WOMEN THIS WAY” or even “I CAN’T DO THIS”
I am unsure if these negative voices would push me, or hold me back, on my next attempt.
Should I let these “punishing” negative voices roam around my mind, or should I screw them the way I would with voices that come when I get a bad response/get ignored (as discussed in step 3)?