Reply To: Slow momentum with girl
I would probably not have texted her if we hadn’t hooked up on the second date. Bare minimum, there should be SOME kissing. If you went for it and she said no, I would have waited for her to text.
Now she’s responded to your text with no commitment or excitement. If you really liked a girl and she asked you out but you were busy, would you say what she said? Of course not. You would have suggested another time. She didn’t. That’s a serious lack of interest.
In this case, I would have responded with something like, “Well say Hi when you’re less busy.” Or even better, I would not have responded at all to her text. Give her some anxiety and make her wonder whether she has you. That’s the only way to pull her in at this point.