Reply To: Second date with church girl
Words are meaningless. Sometimes her saying nothing is a better sign than her saying, “Let’s hang out again soon” or whatever. Those words are worthless. They really have no bearing on what will happen in a situation.
Likewise, sex talk is good. But if you don’t soon turn that into hooking up, it doesn’t build much momentum for you. Yes, it’s way better than no sex talk, but you’re still in the friend zone if you haven’t hooked up.
I would minimize all the talking and friendly hanging out (even over the phone or e-mail or text when she’s away). Be mysterious. Act like you’ve got a lot of options. You could even consider dropping things altogether and picking them up when she returns. If she senses you’re willing to hang out with her as a friend, she will almost always take that route.