Reply To: Second date with church girl

[Eric Disco]

Little backstory:

Before her and I were to meet up for tea, we were with a group of friends. Afterwards, we were planning on heading over to Sonic’s for milkshakes and could have gone with them, but I asked her to go have a cup of tea with me instead at the XYZ Cafe. She instead offered another place at the ABC Cafe and the rest is history.

I’m curious, was there a play I missed here? I figured if she wanted to hang out with friends, she could do it with our group instead of just me. Of course, maybe I’m being used as a validation tool for her attractiveness from guys?

For our third date, should I keep paying for our cups of teas/coffees? I read in the articles here that the man shouldn’t spend his money on the woman all the time, so that he come off as a “nice guy”.