Reply To: persistent or annoying?

[Eric Disco]

“Too busy” is pretty much a No. I would not waste another minute with a girl. Just because she talks on the phone with you doesn’t mean that she’s interested enough to get sexual with you. If a girl said that she was too busy to hang out, I would text her something like, “Well say hi when you’re less busy.” Then I would not contact her again unless she contacted me.

This is the danger with spending an hour talking on the phone with a girl, or spending too much time on a date with a girl. Just because she’s willing to spend time with you doesn’t mean she’s attracted to you. She could be lonely or she could just need validation. She could just be sitting in a park bored, waiting for her boyfriend to show up. A woman spending time with you doesn’t mean she’s attracted to you any more than a man fucking a woman means he likes her as a person.

Eric