Reply To: How far in advance?
A week is safe. The closer you get to the actual day, the more of a risk you’re taking, but the more confidence it projects. If it’s Friday and you’re asking her to an event on Sunday, you may want to ask like this: “hey this sunday i’m going to blah blah to see blah blah play. you should tag along.” She may say she already has plans, but if she doesn’t suggest an alternative – something like “but I’m around next week” – she’s probably not that into.you.