Reply To: girl with a bf
If you can’t get her out, you’re pretty much dead in the water. And even if you can get her out, that doesn’t mean she’ll get sexual with you.
It seems like you’ve developed some feelings for this girl. Considering that she’s already said No a few times, I would let this one go. After a girl says No once–never mind a few times–you have hardly any room to maneuver.
Put it in your calendar to drop her a line in two months. Mess with her a little bit but don’t invite her out. Keep doing this every few months until you see a change in her demeanor or have some other indicator that you can move in.