Reply To: daily approaches overdone?
This is bound to happen to anyone who practices a large number of approaches. So how to feel better about it? Do it on purpose.
The other day I was on the train and I opened a girl standing in the doorway. She responded well but then her stop came up and she got off.
There was another cute girl sitting right near the doorway so I sat down next to her and used the same exact opener on purpose, knowing she probably heard me use it on the girl before her.
“Are you gonna ask every girl on the train that?” she says to me with an incredulous look on her face.
“Yup!” I say, with a smile. And then I continue right along with my opener. Eventually she warms up and I close her at the end.
The same thing has happen with Lee a bunch of times.
Who fucking cares if you use the same opener with a woman twice? Just roll with it. If you act like it bothers you, it will bother you. This is why you want a good routine stack so that even if you do get a little bit flustered, you can keep going.
My advice: if you see a girl you already opened, walk up to her and open her the same exact way again, but do it with a little smile, like you’re fucking with her. Take that risk. Have fun with it.