Reply To: Accountability on doing the 6 steps
Fair enough dude. If the looking thing works for you and is genuinely getting closer to the next step, that’s still improvement.
You obviously have very strong approach anxiety, I believe you. You mentioned before though that you did a bootcamp and were able to approach with a coach pushing you. So you can do it with the right help. Maybe it would help you to find a buddy who is also working on this?
Another thing: You mentioned you don’t really have female friends you can talk to. Do you have women in your life in general?
Perhaps it might help you to simply interact with women more. You could do hobbies or volunteering or something that gets you around women. Not to get dates, but just to have more interactions with them and make some more female friends.