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SomeguyUK
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In what way do you want it to be easier? Because it sounds like you’re very comfortable doing this step (which is great).

You’ll probably find you’re a bit more uncomfortable when you’re actually planning to say something. And that’s normal.

I’m not the expert but I would suggest focusing on your actions, rather than your thoughts. Get next to her. Do whatever you have to do to look natural in that scenario (e.g if you’re in a store, browse the products in front of you). Say your opener. 1,2,3.

Just focus on the steps and try not to think. Thinking means hesitating, and hesitating means talking yourself out of approaches.