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SomeguyUK
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Yes, we do all have limiting beliefs around this.

Are they beliefs or just some kind of instinct? I have successfully met women in the day many times and, coming back after a long time off, I *still* had to convince myself it was possible.

But that’s one of the greatest things about doing this. You have moments where you realise ‘holy crap, not only can you actually do this, but it’s fun and often the women really appreciate it’.

It’s a real confidence boost because part of you realises that most of the stuff you’re afraid of is just an unjustified illusion. And that plays into your whole life, not just meeting women.

Anyway, it doesn’t help much to analyse and try to understand where fears come from. Just go and smash them with action.