Reply To: Overcome Nightgame Anxiety or Quit?
I’d suggest to Smile and wave across first. If the girl is receptive, that is, if she smiles or waves back, go up and approach her. Its ok to be a little nervous. If it’s a pair, talk to both of them.
If she ignores you or gives you the cold-eye, forget her for now.
Wait for the next one.
Dress well, make sure your grooming is good. Her first impression of you is all she has to go on, so if you look ok, she’ll often be receptive.
I would only do bars and lounges, where you can talk. not all bars will work for you, so do some legwork to find the ones that do……
Clubs are completely useless and have a very different dynamic, which is focused mostly on suckering guys into buying girls drinks…don’t waste any time or money in a club.